10 Enemies of a Healthy Marriage And Stable
2011-07-26 13:13:07
There are many factors that can end a marriage. Here are 10 that I think are in summary form, the most common.
1. OBSESSIVE JEALOUSY: Everyone knows what they have at home, if you have a stable relationship and you know your man loves you before, there will be insanely jealous that only torture you, and if the plane has sufficient reason to distrust your partner, because you still have it?
2. ALL THAT YOUR PARTNER IS YOUR WORLD: If your husband is always your focus, and all the time you want to be with, do not leave or breathe and your world becomes, there is nothing more overwhelming than that, let it be , give him some space and have your own life and your independent activities. Take some time to do something you love to you and be with your family and amigos.Veras that this will be helpful for both.
3. ONE OF THE TWO THAT WANT TO HAVE THE TOTAL CONTROL IN THE RELATIONSHIP: We're not in the period in which the man was in charge at all and the woman obeyed, now couples must reach agreement on decisions taken in the family life, work and personal, and sometimes the woman also works and should take decisions on the allocation of responsibilities and activities such as childcare, housework and the distribution of ingresos.Y if any of us wants to have always in control at all, which may generate conflicts.
4. STRESS: Due to work and daily activities are subjected to stress situations, and sometimes the only thing we want to get home to rest and be alone, which can result in the couple distance and resentment. To this end, the first thing we do after coming home from work is to relax (listening to music, exercising, a wealthy couple massage), for after being a hundred per cent and enjoy our relationship as a couple.
5. JUST WHEN THE PASSION: It is very important to keep alive the flame of passion, because although sex is not the only thing in a relationship, whether it is an essential part of maintaining more united the couple and the lack of sex can bring great marriage problems, nor should we forget the small details and continue conquering day by day to our spouse.
6.INVOLUCRAMIENTO OF THIRD PARTIES: When third parties interfere in the relationship, it can cause a major conflict, these people can be friends or relatives who, although certainly have good intentions must be made to see that marriage is two and decisions are taken by two. This is mainly the in-laws, trying to get her son or daughter is well, try to "fix the problems." In this case we must cut the umbilical cord and make it clear that although we love and respect, we take our marriage on our own.
7. MAJOR IDEOLOGICAL DIFFERENCES: While everyone has their own way of thinking, if these differences are too large and are opposed to each other, is more difficult to make the relationship work, because in marriage must somehow going efforts to prosecute in the same direction.
8. LACK OF COMMUNICATION: When there is good communication, a small problem can become a snowball that keeps growing larger.
9. ONLY THINK YOURSELF: While everyone has their own individuality and personal interests, there are times when we have to give up both on some things for the sake of the relationship.
10. OUR NEGLECTING PERSON: When we fail to love ourselves and think about personal growth, it is difficult for other people we want. The same goes for your partner and you may be losing the interest for us little by little
1. OBSESSIVE JEALOUSY: Everyone knows what they have at home, if you have a stable relationship and you know your man loves you before, there will be insanely jealous that only torture you, and if the plane has sufficient reason to distrust your partner, because you still have it?
2. ALL THAT YOUR PARTNER IS YOUR WORLD: If your husband is always your focus, and all the time you want to be with, do not leave or breathe and your world becomes, there is nothing more overwhelming than that, let it be , give him some space and have your own life and your independent activities. Take some time to do something you love to you and be with your family and amigos.Veras that this will be helpful for both.
3. ONE OF THE TWO THAT WANT TO HAVE THE TOTAL CONTROL IN THE RELATIONSHIP: We're not in the period in which the man was in charge at all and the woman obeyed, now couples must reach agreement on decisions taken in the family life, work and personal, and sometimes the woman also works and should take decisions on the allocation of responsibilities and activities such as childcare, housework and the distribution of ingresos.Y if any of us wants to have always in control at all, which may generate conflicts.
4. STRESS: Due to work and daily activities are subjected to stress situations, and sometimes the only thing we want to get home to rest and be alone, which can result in the couple distance and resentment. To this end, the first thing we do after coming home from work is to relax (listening to music, exercising, a wealthy couple massage), for after being a hundred per cent and enjoy our relationship as a couple.
5. JUST WHEN THE PASSION: It is very important to keep alive the flame of passion, because although sex is not the only thing in a relationship, whether it is an essential part of maintaining more united the couple and the lack of sex can bring great marriage problems, nor should we forget the small details and continue conquering day by day to our spouse.
6.INVOLUCRAMIENTO OF THIRD PARTIES: When third parties interfere in the relationship, it can cause a major conflict, these people can be friends or relatives who, although certainly have good intentions must be made to see that marriage is two and decisions are taken by two. This is mainly the in-laws, trying to get her son or daughter is well, try to "fix the problems." In this case we must cut the umbilical cord and make it clear that although we love and respect, we take our marriage on our own.
7. MAJOR IDEOLOGICAL DIFFERENCES: While everyone has their own way of thinking, if these differences are too large and are opposed to each other, is more difficult to make the relationship work, because in marriage must somehow going efforts to prosecute in the same direction.
8. LACK OF COMMUNICATION: When there is good communication, a small problem can become a snowball that keeps growing larger.
9. ONLY THINK YOURSELF: While everyone has their own individuality and personal interests, there are times when we have to give up both on some things for the sake of the relationship.
10. OUR NEGLECTING PERSON: When we fail to love ourselves and think about personal growth, it is difficult for other people we want. The same goes for your partner and you may be losing the interest for us little by little
